فوق حقّه… دُقّه / اللهجة الفلسطينية الأردنية
كان في شب اسمه باسل، كان واقف بسيارته عند الإشارة. فجأة، إجت سيارة من وراه وخبطته. نزل باسل يشوف شو صار و قبل ما يحكي أي كلمة، نزل السايق الثاني وصار يصرخ: “إنت ما بتعرف تسوق!” باسل استغرب وقال: “بس إنت اللي خبطتني من ورا.” السايق بدل ما يعتذر او يحكي باحترام، ضل يصرخ،،،، ويهدد إنه رح يجيب الشرطة،،،، وصار يحاول يقنع الناس اللي تجمعوا إنه باسل هو الغلطان. بعد شوي، وصلت الشرطة، وشاف الشرطي كاميرا المحل اللي جنبهم. و طلع بالفيديو إنه باسل كان واقف بمكانه، والسيارة الثانية هي اللي خبطته. الشرطي كتب المخالفة على السايق الثاني. و لمّا باسل رجع على سيارته، كان واحد من الناس اللي حضروا الحادث يهز راسه ويقول: “والله… فوق حقّه، دُقّه.” لأنه باسل هو المظلوم، وبدل ما يعتذر منه،،،، قلبها عليه وصار يهاجمه ويتهمه. معنى المثل “فوق حقّه… دُقّه” بنحكيه ردّ لما يكون شخص غلطان وبدل ما يعتذر و يحكي بأدب، بالعكس، بيتكبّر وكأنه هو صاحب الحق أو لمّا يكون شخص مظلوم أو إله حق، وبدل ما ياخذ حقه، يزيدوا عليه باللوم أو الظلم أو الإهانة.
“On Top of Being Wrong… He Makes It Worse” (Palestinian–Jordanian dialect proverb) There was a young man named Basel who was stopped at a traffic light. Suddenly, another car crashed into the back of his vehicle. Basel got out to see what had happened. Before he could even say a word, the other driver jumped out and started yelling, “You don’t even know how to drive!” Basel looked at him in disbelief and replied, “But you’re the one who hit me from behind.” Instead of apologizing or speaking respectfully, the other driver kept shouting, threatened to call the police, and even tried to convince the people gathering around that Basel was the one at fault. A few minutes later, the police arrived. The officer checked the security camera from a nearby shop. The footage clearly showed that Basel’s car had been completely stopped, and it was the other driver who had crashed into him. The officer issued the traffic ticket to the other driver. As Basel walked back to his car, one of the bystanders shook his head and said, “On top of being wrong… he made it even worse.” Because Basel was the victim, yet instead of receiving an apology, he was blamed, shouted at, and accused. Meaning of the proverb “On top of being wrong… he makes it worse” is used in two situations: * When someone is clearly at fault, but instead of apologizing or admitting their mistake, they become arrogant and act as if they are the one in the right. * Or when someone is the victim or the one who deserves justice, but instead of getting the fairness they deserve, they are met with even more blame, mistreatment, or humiliation.